What this looks like
Picture this
Your mother is three weeks out from a fall. The hospital sent her home with two new medications, a follow-up appointment nobody scheduled, and a discharge summary her primary care doctor never received. You're piecing it together from her recollection of what the doctor said, over the phone, from three hundred miles away.
Now picture it with me involved. I was at the hospital before discharge, so I know exactly what changed. The new medications are in the organizer and reconciled against everything else she takes. The follow-up is on the calendar, and I'm in the room when the doctor walks in. Her primary care doctor has the summary because I sent it. And you got a plain-language note from me the night she came home telling you what happened, what to watch for, and what I'm doing next.
Same fall. Completely different three weeks.